It’s when we get caught up in these middle scenes, with all the drama and trauma, that our attention is hooked on things going wrong. And things will go wrong until we get our attention off what we’re worried about and back on what we want.

So remember how your movie ends when you get a rejection letter, or when you think you’re flubbing the interview, or when they say they have no openings. It can be a tricky thing because we’re addicted to the “reality” around us, but keep your thoughts on the happy ending.

Although it's easy to get caught up in the dark scenes of our movie/life, if you remember how your movie ends, your dreams will come true. You're writing the script; you choose the ending. It's all up to you! And you can get through these ugly scenes simply by remembering your beautiful ending.

The next time you or someone you love complains about what’s going wrong, ask how the movie ends. It's a great trigger to remember to focus on what you want, not on what is.